D'MELLO, Joaquim - (November 16, 1933 - January 9, 2021) -
Joaquim D’Mello, the youngest of five children, was born to Alexander and Beatrice (nee Nazareth) D’Mello, on November 16th, 1933.
Raised in a deeply devoted Roman Catholic family, he joined the Altar Boys Society of St. Patrick’s Parish at an early age, where he made several lifelong friendships. He was a bright student and completed his schooling at St. Patrick’s High School, after which he got his B. Com degree and went into banking where he discovered his professional passion.
A studious man, Joaquim excelled in all the multiple banking exams he took over the years, ultimately becoming distinguished as a Fellow of the Institute of Bankers, London, England.
Joaquim met and married Joyce Rodgers on June 3rd, 1956, and together they raised four wonderful children: James, Jennifer, Jeanne, and Jessica.
Joaquim (Jock as he was known amongst family & friends) and Joyce were a popular couple, well known in the community for organizing fun-filled parties and picnics to Clifton, Sandspit and Hawkes Bay beaches.
Sadly, Joyce passed away on January 4, 1997, with the family by her side.
Joaquim retired as a Professor of Banking Law and International Trade, and as Senior Vice-President of a major bank. He was a prolific author; his articles were published in numerous international banking journals and publications and even banking textbooks. He was sought internationally for his expertise in International Banking Law and Practice. Not only was he a self-taught man, but over and beyond the 5 decades of his banking career he mentored hundreds of banking students and took the time to coach many of his friends who were in the same profession.
He immigrated to Toronto, Canada in 1998 and settled into retirement life, close to his children, grandchildren, and extended family of nieces and nephews. As a well-traveled man, he had many wonderful stories to tell, seasoned with his original sense of wit and humour - keeping everyone around him entertained.
Joaquim’s retirement life included so many interests. He promptly became an active member of the Good Shepherd Parish community, joining the Choir and the Prayer group. He was a member of the Thornhill Seniors Community, as well as the Can Orient Seniors Club. He had a highly active social life, meeting regularly with many of his old school friends, and relatives all over Canada, Europe, and the U.S.
In the words of all who knew him, Joaquim was a selfless, humble, gentle, kind, and generous soul. He was an upright gentleman who, throughout his career, was well known for his moral fibre rooted in his deep spirituality. He always had a kind word, paired with a smile, for everyone of every age.
May his soul Rest in Peace. Amen.
Joaquim will be deeply missed by children and grandchildren:
James D’Mello
Jennifer & Thomas Menezes
Jeanne, Victor, Sapphire & Emerald Misquitta
Jessica DeMello, Andrew & Vanessa Alphons
his brother-in-law Clarence (& Cheryl) Rodgers, as well as his cousins, Godchildren, nieces, nephews and countless relatives and friends.
In lieu of flowers, if desired, the family would appreciate donations to either the Alzheimer Society or the Cummer Lodge Volunteer Program (at the Home where Joaquim was a resident for the past 4 years, and the recipient of wonderful care)
Arrangements are entrusted with Kane-Jerrett funeral home, Thornhill. Due to the current pandemic, attendance at the funeral is restricted to the most immediate family only. You are invited to join the funeral service via Live-Stream on January 16th at 1:00 p.m. The link is provided below.
Attend the live-stream at: http://ipickart.ca/stream/D'Mello/
The recording of the funeral will be available for 30 days following the date of the funeral, by using the same link.
On behalf of the entire family your consideration is appreciated.
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