BENDER, Dianne Edna Deb Bender

It is with deep sadness that we announce the peaceful passing of Deb Bender at the age of 74 on Sept. 8th at Ed’s House Hospice in Cobourg with family by her side.
Born Dianne Edna Bowerman on December 21, 1950, to Violet and Ralph Bowerman, she grew up in Belleville Ontario. Deb married the boy next door in 1973 and enjoyed 52 years of love and laughter with Terry, years that included hosting car rallys, poker runs, and game night parties at home. Deb was known for her love of baking and cooking, trying new recipes from her extensive library of cookbooks. She was loved for her warm and welcoming nature, her intuitive sense of humour and her positive outlook on life. She had so many friends from all walks of her life with whom she enjoyed spending time.
Deb will be missed by her loving husband Terry, twin sister Vianne Ninness (John), brother Phil Bowerman, brothers-in-law Allan Bender and Tom Bender, Sister-in-law Bonnie Bender, and nieces and nephews who loved her dearly.
She was predeceased by her parents Violet and Ralph Bowerman, with whom she shall be interred beside at Mount Lawn Memorial Gardens, Whitby.
Long-time member of Cobourg Legion Branch 133, where she enjoyed meeting and sharing time with friends and family and winning at the odd meat draw.
In memoriam contributions may be made to Ed’s House Northumberland Hospice, Royal Canadian Legion Branch 133 Cobourg or a charity of your choice.
There will be a Celebration of Life on Sunday, October 19th, 2025 from 2-4 pm at the Cobourg Legion Hall RCL Branch 133, 135B Orr St. in Cobourg.