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GRAVES, Adam Richard Graves

 

Graves AdamGRAVES, Adam Richard Graves  -

November 15, 1987 - April 12, 2024

 

Beloved husband, father, son, brother and friend, Adam Richard Graves, passed away on 12 April 2024 at the age of 36.

 

Adam died in Toronto, Canada where he was living with his loving wife Clare and their beautiful 20-month old son, Cayden.

 

His family and friends are in shock at Adam’s sudden and untimely passing, and grateful to the many people who have expressed their own sadness at this loss.

Hearing happy stories of Adam, sharing special memories and receiving offers of support through this incredibly difficult time have been hugely comforting to Clare and the family. Adam was born on 15 November 1987 in Chester to Ellen and Colin Graves.

 

He grew up with sister Charlotte in Ellesmere Port and attended The Firs Primary School and Wirral Grammar School.

 

At school he excelled at English Literature, Music and Media. At Yale College in Wrexham, he started on his path towards a visual effects career, studying A-Levels including Film Studies, Media Studies

and Art, before commencing his degree in Film & Television Studies at Aberystwyth University.

 

He was always self-motivated and knew exactly what he wanted to do; where many young people attempt different careers, drifting between jobs and changing their course, Adam was always determined to pursue a career in television and film effects, and was keen to put in the hard graft to get there.

 

It was at Aberystwyth University that he met and fell in love with Clare and after completing their degrees, they moved to London to pursue their respective careers: Adam in visual effects and Clare in teaching. They worked hard, living in a tiny flat in King’s Cross, and enjoyed exploring the city at the weekend, making new friends and frequenting the local pubs.

 

In 2017, an exciting job opportunity as a Compositor for Legend 3D presented itself, so Clare and Adam took a huge step and moved to Toronto – the home of the film production industry. It was competitive but Adam threw himself into his passion for film and television and kept climbing up the ladder. Adam and Clare enjoyed their lives in Canada, laying down roots when they adopted their cat, Smudge, and enjoying their shared interests of WWE and Formula One.

 

When he passed, Adam was working as Creative Head and Visual Effects Supervisor at Vitamin VFX. He had recently discovered that he has been nominated twice for Achievement in Visual Effects at the 2024 Canadian Screen Awards, akin to the Baftas and Oscars.

 

His family and friends were so proud of his tenacity, his dedication and the responsibility he felt to support his family. In March 2018, Adam proposed to Clare on the seafront at Aberystwyth, outside of The Bay, a bar where they had originally met. This was done in front of Clare’s Dad as one of his final wishes, and it was magical to share this happy occasion together. In 2022, Adam and Clare became parents to their vibrant, happy boy, Cayden and were married the following year back in the UK.

 

Adam was delighted to be a dad, and never happier than when he was making Cayden laugh, and spending time together as a family at Niagara Falls. Clare was thrilled to experience Adam as a father, and after the loss of her own dad in July 2018 and Adam’s mum in November 2022, their family was finally able to share some joy and peace. It is these cherished memories that will live with Clare forever, and which she will work hard to share with Cayden as he grows.

 

It is vital to Clare and the whole family that Cayden knows as much as possible about his dad, and the wonderful bond they shared that tragically ended too soon.

 

Adam’s funeral service will be held at 1.00pm on Friday 26 April at: The SIMPLE ALTERNATIVE FUNERAL CENTRE - PICKERING 1057 Brock Road Pickering, ON L1W 3T7 Prior to this, from 12.00pm - 1.00pm, visitation will be available for friends and colleagues, should they wish to say a personal goodbye to Adam. After the funeral, there will be a gathering at the family home: 24-1350 Glenana Road Pickering, ON L1V 2V9

 

Anyone who knew and loved Adam is welcome to attend, and the family is grateful to anyone who would like to come and pay their respects. On this site, there is a digital guestbook where you are invited to leave condolences and happy memories of Adam, as well as a media area for music, photos or videos. If you could take a moment to write about the times you shared with Adam, and upload any images you have of him, these will be collected for Cayden to enjoy and learn more about his dad in the coming years.

 

The whole Graves family would like to thank everyone who was part of Adam’s life and brought joy to him, offered him opportunities to grow and put a smile on his face.

 

His life was too short, but he lived bravely and we are choosing to celebrate his memory and show thanks for his life.

 

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HEROLD, Joseph Herold

HEROLD, Joseph Herold  -  With heavy hearts the family of Joseph John Herold announces that he lost the fight to recover from his latest surgery at Peterborough Regional Hospital on April 12, 2024.

 

He is predeceased by his parents Joseph and Barbara Herold (nee Weber); his five older siblings; and granddaughter Teegan.

Joe is survived by his loving and patient wife of 63 years, Linda (nee Sanders); and sons Mark (Jeannie), Tony (Donna) and J.P. (Gill). He was the loving Poppa to grandchildren Alex, Paul, Steven, Brooke, Niko, Patrick, and Melissa and will be fondly remembered by his great grandchildren and many nieces and nephews. Joe was born on December 21, 1942, in Toronto, Ontario.

 

He and Linda raised their boys in Stouffville, Uxbridge and Leaskdale before settling on the island in Port Perry as empty nesters.

 

They later moved to Bobcaygeon where they found comfort in the quiet community and formed many friendships.

 

Following Joe’s retirement from Ontario Hydro, he and Linda sought refuge from the cold winters by becoming snowbirds at their second home in Florida where they stayed for about 12 years. In his free time Joe loved to play golf, he was a talented craftsman and made some of the best dill pickles.

 

He will always be remembered for his meticulously kept hair, perfectly groomed moustache, the smell of his cherry pipe tobacco and his big-hearted grumpy love.

 

A celebration of Joe’s life will take place at a later date.

 

In lieu of flowers, a donation can be made in memory of Joe to the Uxbridge Scugog Animal Shelter, Sleeping Children Around the World or Africycle.

 

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ROBINSON-PALMER, Icilda T. Robinson-Palmer

ROBINSON-PALMER, Icilda T.,   -  Went peacefully with her family and friends by her side at Brampton Civic Hospital on Tuesday, March 12, 2024 at age 80.

 

Icilda, loving mother of Vinnett Ramsay, Maxine Berley and Leighton McKenzie.

 

Proud grandmother of 10 and great grandmother of 9.

Dear sister to her remaining siblings  Linneth Campbell, Simeon Robinson, Wilbert Robinson, Penziner Williams and Delroy Robinson. 

 

Family and friends will be received at Mount Lawn Funeral Home & Cemetery, 21 Garrard Road, Whitby on Thursday, April 18, 2024 from 4-8 pm. A Funeral Service will be held at Covenant of Promise Ministries, 30 Penn Drive, North York on Friday, April 19, 2024 at 10 am with visitation starting at 9 am.

 

Interment  MOUNT LAWN CEMETERY 

 

 God Saw You Getting Tired God saw you getting tired And a cure was not to be So He put His arms around you And whispered ‘Come with Me.’ With tearful eyes We watched you suffer And saw you fade away Although we loved you dearly We could not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating Hard working hands at rest God broke our hearts to prove He only takes the best.

 

It’s lonesome here without you We miss you more each day Life doesn’t seem the same Since you’ve gone away. 

 

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QUIRT, Mary Lenore Quirt

 

Quirt MaryQUIRT, Mary Lenore Quirt  -

JUNE 3, 1927 – APRIL 12, 2024

 

Passed away peacefully with family by her side at the Lakeridge Health Oshawa on Friday, April 12, 2024, at the age of 96 years.

 

Predeceased by her beloved husband Robert.

 

Loving mother of late Robert James, Jan Tutton, late Rhonda, and Andrea Magyar (Arpi).

Cherished nana of Nicholas (Bonni), Reagan (Bryant), Laura (Conrad), Timothy, Charlie, Caitlyn, Pipper, and great nana of Tristen, Carson (Melissa), Kayden, Jaxson, Deeks, Lucy, and Arabella.

 

Predeceased by all her siblings. Dear daughter of the late Perry and Mary Edwards. Lenore will be dearly missed by all her family and friends near and far.

 

A private family service will be held.

 

Arrangements entrusted to OSHAWA FUNERAL HOME 847 King St. W, Oshawa.

 

Donations may be made to the Canadian Cancer Society.

 

Online condolences and tributes may be placed at  oshawafuneralhome.com.

 

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PAUTLER, Shirley Jean Pautler

 

Pautler ShirleyPAUTLER, Shirley Jean (Hoffman) Pautler  -

May 16, 1930  – April 12, 2024

 

Passed away peacefully at Oak Ridges Hospice in Port Perry, on April 12, 2024, at the age of 93.

 

Beloved wife of the late Paul Pautler (1988). Loving mother of Dan (Josee) and Mike (Joanne).

 

Loving Grandma to Corina (Fez), Jennifer (Paul), Myola (Jay), Catherine (Jonathan), Michael (Ania), Lydia (Lou), Joachim (Lindsay), Eartha, also Ariane (Zach).

Cherished Great Grandma to Dylan, Eleanor, Hayden, Hannah, Jayda, Shiloh, Thomas, James, Audrey, Joachim, Cassius, Moses, Metayo, Messiah, Layla, Nikolai, Zach, and Amelia. Shirley will be sadly missed by her extended family and many friends.

 

The family would like to extend a special thank you to caregivers Sharon, Denise, and Amy, and to the staff at Oak Ridges Hospice.

 

Visitation will be held at the OSHAWA FUNERAL HOME, 847 King St. W Oshawa on Thursday, April 18th from 12:00 p.m. until time of Funeral service in the chapel at 1:30 p.m. Reception to follow.

 

A private family interment at Holy Cross Cemetery, Thornhill, on Friday, April 19th.

 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Oak Ridges Hospice in Port Perry, or to the charity of your choice.

 

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BANDSTRA, Jeanette Bandstra

BANDSTRA, Jeanette (nee Haak) -

September 26, 1970 - April 11, 2024

 

Jeanette passed away unexpectedly and peacefully at Lakeridge Health, Port Perry on Thursday April 11, 2024 at the age of 53.

Jeanette will always be loved and remembered by her cherished husband Jim Bandstra and her two girls, Jordyn and Jaden, who she was so proud of.

 

Jeanette will be very missed by her siblings Jake Haak (Trish) and Jerry Haak (Diana) as well as her extended family Owen Bandstra (Trix), Janet Driese (Andrew), and John Bandstra (Jess).

 

Jeanette will also be missed by all of her nieces, nephews, and many many friends in the Port Perry and nearby communities.

 

Visitation will be at Low & Low Funeral Home, Port Perry on Thursday April 18, 2024 from 2:00 - 4:00 & 6:00 - 8:00 PM.  A celebration of life will be held at Hope Christian Reformed Church,14480 Old Simcoe Road, Port Perry, on Friday April 19, 2024 at 11:00 AM. As expressions of sympathy, memorial donations can be made to Humane Society of Durham or Kids Sport Ontario, and would be appreciated by Jeanette’s family.

 

“The world changes from year to year, our lives from day to day,

But the love and memory of you, shall never pass away” 

- Unknown .

 

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HOVEY, Helen Hovey

HOVEY, Helen Hovey  -  Passed peacefully at Extendicare Oshawa on April 11, at the age of 98.

Beloved wife of the late Ian. Loving mother to Todd(Michele), Gail, and Donna(Russ).

Proud grandma to Cara(Drew) and great-grandma to Olin, Marlow and Henry.

In keeping with Helen's wishes, cremation has taken place and no formal service will be held.

 

If desired, memorial donations to either the Alzheimer's Society (https://alzheimer.ca/durham/) or the Heart and Stroke Foundation (https://www.heartandstroke.ca/) are greatly appreciated .

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LEEDER, William “Bill” Leeder

LEEDER, William "Bill"  -  Bill passed away at Lakeridge Health Oshawa on Thursday, April 11, 2024 at the age of 65.

 

He is predeceased by his father.

He is survived by his son and his family, his mother and his sisters. 

 

There will be a Graveside service held at Greenwood Cemetery, 100 King St., Halton Hills, Ontario on Thursday, April 18, 2024 at 12pm..

 

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GOMES, Luiz do Rosario Gomes

GOMES, Luiz do Rosario Gomes   -

1927 - 2024

 

Luiz Gomes, beloved husband of Blanche, passed away peacefully on the 11th of April, 2024, surrounded by his family.

 

Born in Goa, he was the eldest son of Dr. and Mrs. Gomes, where his journey through life began.

Luiz's early years were marked by a passion for music, acting, and singing. He attended a prestigious school run by German Fathers, where his talents flourished. Excelling in music, he particularly shone as a talented trumpeter, captivating audiences as a vital part of his school's orchestra.

 

After completing his education, Luiz embarked on a distinguished career in banking. For thirty years, he served with dedication and integrity in various locations for Barclay's Bank, earning the respect and appreciation of his peers and colleagues at the Institute of Bankers.

 

Beyond his professional pursuits, Luiz was a man of diverse interests and passions. He possessed a deep love for theatre, music, and literature, with a reputation as a great dancer and avid reader. His vibrant personality earned him the title of the life and soul of any gathering.

 

He will be deeply missed by his devoted wife Blanche and their three daughters, Lynette Miranda (Angelo), Melonie Maguire (Mike), and Vanessa Meraw (Peter). His four grandchildren, Liam (Denielle) and Aidan Maguire, and Maya and Daniella Meraw, brought him immense happiness and fulfillment.

 

As we bid farewell to Luiz, we honour his remarkable life and the mark he left on all who knew him.

 

May his soul rest in eternal peace, and may his memory continue to inspire and uplift us.  Arrangements with McEachnie Funeral Home.

 

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DESLANDES, Paul Anthony Deslandes

 

Deslandes PaulDESLANDES, Paul Anthony Deslandes  - 

November 10, 1965 - April 11, 2024

 

Paul Anthony Deslandes was born on November 10, 1965, in Kingston, Jamaica through the loving union of Ivy May Deslandes and Jerome Alphonso Deslandes.

 

He was the youngest of their nine children. Paul spent his formative years in Jamaica, while attending Mico Practicing All Age School. He emigrated to Toronto, Ontario, Canada to join his mother Ivy and sister Jean in 1975, where he attended elementary and post secondary school.

Paul was passionate about food and became an outstanding cook and baker after experimenting with his mother’s recipes, cookbooks, and drawing inspiration from the Food Network.

 

He had so much insight and knowledge about different types of foods, herbs, and spices, and created his own rubs and sauces. He was also very health conscious, and knowledgeable about the healing properties of various plants, fruits, and vegetables - often educating his family about these provisions and creating remedies when they were sick. Although self-taught, Paul was a chef and an herbalist in his own right!

 

As a musicologist, Paul really loved music and knew a great deal about music (reggae, R&B, hip-hop and soul), as well as different artists. He was an avid collector of records, cassettes and CDs.

 

With his knowledge and expertise of the different genre in music, he exposed his family and younger generations to his unique collections. He even fronted as a music producer to get his nieces and nephews to sing over mixed tunes. As the family DJ, he often played music at events such as birthdays and other gatherings.

 

Paul took great pride in his custom music systems that he built himself from salvaging broken speakers, repairing them, and making them better than they were in the first place. The house was always filled with music that he played from his custom systems.

 

It soothed his soul knowing that others could share the experience and the intricacies of the music he enjoyed by his favourite reggae artists including Sanchez, Wayne Wonder, Luciano, Garnet Silk, Frankie Paul, Beres Hammond, Super Cat, Shaggy, Sean Paul, Rayvon, Heavy D, Biggy Small, Tupac, Usher, Mary J Blige, Alicia Keys, Jennifer Hudson, Anita Baker, Safe and Toni Braxton, just to name a few. Paul aka (Pablo) was first called Pablo by his sister Patricia, because of his musical talents that reminded her of a reggae artist named Augustus Pablo. Paul had a mellow personality that was like a gentle, humble giant, not to mention his amusing sense of humor. Those close to Paul knew that they could always give him a call if they were ever feeling down.

 

This is because Paul was very

compassionate, patient, loving, and kind especially towards his nieces and nephews. It was endearing to Paul to be called “Pablo” by close family and friends.

 

Paul was very spiritual, holding a strong belief in the Creator. He turned to the Lord and often read his bible. He shared this with his family to ensure that they do the same. It is for this reason that we know that he is certainly in a much better place now. Paul passed away on April 11, 2024, and left behind a loving extended family and a circle of friends.

 

He leaves behind his eight siblings who love him dearly: Sonia, Valerie, Michael, Audrey, Jean, Patricia, Rose, and Andrea.

 

He also left behind twelve nieces and nephews who loved him dearly: Marsha, Shelene, Christel, Kisrene, Shawna, Aundre, Sheldon, Daniella, Tanya, Lache, Sade, and Miguel. Additionally, twenty-one grand nieces and nephews including: Daniel, Allysha, Kaisha, Jarell, Kahelle, Brooklyn, Dana, Jorell, Tejean, Thalia, Summer, Kianna, Isabella, Ashton, Chandler, Krystal, Elijah, Gabrielle, Raven, Isaac, and Olivia.

 

Along with great grand nieces and nephews including: Channing, Harper, Denver, Avah, Zayn, Chosen. Lastly, Paul also left behind his loving aunt, Francis Rose Carey, cousins, extended families and friends.

 

Paul was preceded in death by his loving father Jerome, mother Ivy, niece Dionne, and nephew Marlon. Paul will forever be remembered as a wonderful brother, uncle, cousin and friend, and for his fun personality, humour, love, empathy and compassion for others, passion for music and food, and all the amazing memories.

 

He has left a lasting impression on all those who met him, to live life to our full capacity and following our passion.

 

Paul reminds us all to love one another and always trust the Creator.

 

Arrangements with SIMPLE ALTERNATIVE FUNERAL CENTRE - PICKERING .

 

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