Tom Ellis

1948 – 2024

Tom Ellis of Chatham passed away peacefully on December 15, 2024, in his 77th year, with his beloved wife of 55 years, Deanna (née Turner), by his side. Loving father and father-in-law of Patti Ellis and Cedar Lewisohn of London, England; Colette and Jonathan Lienhard of Warrenton, Virginia; and Trevor and Susan Ellis of Pain Court, Ontario.

Tom was incredibly proud of his grandsons: Aidan and Everett Ellis; Charlie, Michael, and James Lienhard; and his favorite granddaughter, Grace Ellis. They were the lights of his life, and he took immense pride in watching each of them grow and mature.

Tom was one of seven children born to the late Irene (née McNiff) and Pat Ellis. He is survived by his siblings Mike and Carol Ellis; Jill Ellis and Diane Delage; Karen and Mike Pepper; Colleen and Rob Furneaux; and Kelly and Dave Peardon. He is predeceased by his brother, Danny Ellis (late Rose). Fondly remembered by Deanna’s family: Roy Turner (late Marie Lou Langlois); Iain and Irene Turner; Karen (late Bill Heathcote); Sheila and Ken Embury. He was predeceased by his in-laws, Edwin and Georgina Turner.

Growing up in Dover Centre, Tom often reflected fondly on the joys of his childhood, a place where he later raised his family before moving to Chatham. He found joy on the golf course with friends, cherished hunting and motorcycle trips, and loved the camaraderie of playing cards. The smell of his famous spaghetti and meatballs will remain a warm memory for many, as will his readiness to lend a hand with construction projects, showcasing his skills and generosity. Proud of his trucking career, he often joked about having backed up further than most people have driven forward.

In retirement, Tom’s spirit shone through in his countless acts of kindness, unwavering support for his grandchildren’s sports events, and the delight he found in special trips to Chick-fil-A with his grandsons in Virginia. His mornings were brightened by laughter and friendship with his cherished coffee group, where he shared hearty jokes and good conversations. He looked forward to his weekly outings at the Legion, always ensuring his friends arrived home safely.

In tribute to his wishes, a private celebration of life will be held at a later date, allowing those who loved him to honor his memory in a meaningful way. Donations made in memory of Tom to a charity of your choice would be appreciated by the family. Online condolences may be left at www.mckinlayfuneralhome.com.

Memories and notes of condolence may be shared at McKinlay Funeral Home.