Sandra de Freitas (neé Harley)
November 10, 1955 - November 27, 2024
Sandra de Freitas, fondly known as Sandy and ‘mums,’ was a woman of immense love, resilience, and generosity. To many, she was a guiding light and a source of unending compassion. November was a month of milestones in Sandy’s life: she was born November 10, 1955, married November 26, 1973, and bid farewell November 27, 2024, at the age of 69, surrounded by her family, whom she loved fiercely: her husband Duane, her son Justin, and her daughter Kayla.
For over five decades, Sandy shared her life with her beloved husband, building a partnership rooted in love, adventure, and shared dreams in the Rupununi, Guyana. Together, they raised many children and grandchildren, both by blood and bond. Sandy is also survived by two loving sisters, a loving brother, five nephews, and one niece.
Sandy’s life was a rich tapestry of purpose and passion. She managed a ranch, ran a business, led a tourism enterprise, and taught herself medicine and first aid for remote areas. She opened her home and heart to anyone in need. Known for her fierce determination, she found joy in the pleasures of life: good music, good food, a good joint, a good shot, and good company. She loved poetry, red then blue then silver nail polish, cooking, art, dancing, silver jewelry, a good murder mystery, and the natural beauty of the world around her.
She believed in living fully and always said, “Better to burn out than fade away.” Her zest for life was contagious, and her advice, “Go for it,” inspired everyone she knew. Sandy had a gift for making others feel seen, heard, and loved, cherishing the connections she formed throughout her life.
Sandy joins her beloved mother, who meant so much to her. Sandy’s legacy lives on in the countless lives she touched. Her spirit will forever inspire those who were fortunate enough to know her, a reminder of a life well-lived and a love freely given.
Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day, unseen, unheard, but always near, still loved, still missed, and very dear.
Memories and notes of condolence may be shared at McEACHNIE FUNERAL HOME.
